Emily

And I know it's a two-sided issue that we've kind of created this dynamic together, but we've been married for like 13 years and just have just been through the ringer kind of. And I just have a hard time broaching these subjects because he does get kind of sensitive and will feel like I'm mad at him, like when I'm not mad at him or if I'm just saying like, Hey, could you do this?

And I know it's a two-sided issue that we've kind of created this dynamic together, but we've been married for like 13 years and just have just been through the ringer kind of. And I just have a hard time broaching these subjects because he does get kind of sensitive and will feel like I'm mad at him, like when I'm not mad at him or if I'm just saying like, Hey, could you do this?

He's like, well, why are you grumpy? Why? And I'm, I'm not grumpy. So I'm just kind of, I'm not the best communicator either. So I'm kind of just stumped.

He's like, well, why are you grumpy? Why? And I'm, I'm not grumpy. So I'm just kind of, I'm not the best communicator either. So I'm kind of just stumped.

He's like, well, why are you grumpy? Why? And I'm, I'm not grumpy. So I'm just kind of, I'm not the best communicator either. So I'm kind of just stumped.

Yeah. Well, that's, I mean, the last couple of conversations we've had about just by him being unhappy. Okay.

Yeah. Well, that's, I mean, the last couple of conversations we've had about just by him being unhappy. Okay.

Yeah. Well, that's, I mean, the last couple of conversations we've had about just by him being unhappy. Okay.

And he's like, well, he's like, I just feel like you don't like me at all. That's it.

And he's like, well, he's like, I just feel like you don't like me at all. That's it.

And he's like, well, he's like, I just feel like you don't like me at all. That's it.

And I'm like, well, I don't really right now because I just had to pick up all of your dirty socks and you're watching TikTok while I did the dishes and just like, and I understand that like there are going to be days that he's like at a zero after he gets home from work and I'm so appreciative that he does go to work. But I've tried to say, I don't really want to make a list.

And I'm like, well, I don't really right now because I just had to pick up all of your dirty socks and you're watching TikTok while I did the dishes and just like, and I understand that like there are going to be days that he's like at a zero after he gets home from work and I'm so appreciative that he does go to work. But I've tried to say, I don't really want to make a list.

And I'm like, well, I don't really right now because I just had to pick up all of your dirty socks and you're watching TikTok while I did the dishes and just like, and I understand that like there are going to be days that he's like at a zero after he gets home from work and I'm so appreciative that he does go to work. But I've tried to say, I don't really want to make a list.

You have to do this every day, but just jump in. Let's do it together. Let's exist together instead of just you being off to the side until the end of the night.

You have to do this every day, but just jump in. Let's do it together. Let's exist together instead of just you being off to the side until the end of the night.

You have to do this every day, but just jump in. Let's do it together. Let's exist together instead of just you being off to the side until the end of the night.

No, but I will say I have gotten better at not saying anything about it.

No, but I will say I have gotten better at not saying anything about it.

No, but I will say I have gotten better at not saying anything about it.