Emma Chamberlain

Okay, it's your main priority.

It makes up the majority of your foundation, your emotional foundation in your life.

Metaphorically, you've put too many of your eggs in one basket, the basket being him.

Your life is not balanced.

Your priorities are not balanced.

You're not putting your energy out in a balanced way.

You're putting too much energy on your romantic relationship.

And this is an easy mistake to make, okay?

Love can be all consuming.

It's tempting to put all of our energy into romantic relationships because there's an electricity in the romance that we don't get from our friends.

We don't get from our family.

We don't get from our hobbies.

We don't get from our career.

I swear it comes down to the sex.

I think it's actually just the sexual element that is so... I'm not a scientist, but...

from what I've read online, your brain releases a lot of chemicals when you have sex, a lot, more so than when you like respond to an email, more so than when you are sitting at a coffee shop with your friend.

Sex, it, boom, you know, there's a lot of chemicals coming out, more than normal.

And I think that combined with like also all the chemicals that explode out of your brain, see, this is why I'm not a scientist and this is why you need to take my advice with a grain of salt because I'm kind of,

Who knows what I'm saying, but you get what I'm saying.

The chemicals released in your brain also when you're in love, especially in like the honeymoon stage and stuff, it's very, it's very all consuming.