Emma Chamberlain

You're not afraid of losing one another.

You obviously want to be together and you really want to make it work.

But if you have a life outside of the relationship, then you're not afraid to call your partner out on their bullshit.

And that's very important in a healthy relationship.

So not only will having these boundaries make the dynamic of your relationship better, but also you as an individual will be happier.

Your source, or maybe not happier, but you will be more emotionally regulated.

You might experience joy or happiness more frequently.

You won't completely crumble the second something goes wrong in your relationship.

Not only when your relationship gets a little rocky, you can rely on these other areas of your life to sort of support you.

but also vice versa.

If shit's kind of not going so well in your career, well, luckily you have all this other stuff that can help support you emotionally in the meantime.

Do you know what I mean?

That's why I think it's so important in life to balance your priorities, balance your energy.

You know, you shouldn't ever be too focused on one thing.

If you're feeling dependent on your partner, you're putting too much energy into your partner.

Now, don't get me wrong.

We shouldn't neglect our partner.

But if this rings true to you at all, then you know what I'm talking about.

And I don't even need to explain anymore.

Moving on.