Emma Chamberlain

chances are they are going to know that they're doing that.

And they're going to be very aware of that.

And the second you say it, they're not going to be surprised that you're saying it.

So don't be afraid of it coming out of left field.

They probably already know that they're doing it.

They just can't help themselves.

They're in a bad place.

They're insecure themselves.

They can't help themselves.

And you enable it in a way by not confronting it so they just think that they can continue to do it.

without repercussions yeah in that case if it's something like that you don't have to be worried about what it looks like to them or if it's coming out of nowhere like who cares they're treating you like shit like actually like shit you know it's not just like an annoyance like a minor annoyance that may be resolvable or not like it's very clear like that's not cool

And by the way, you can leave a friendship whenever, for whatever reason.

That is completely your prerogative.

But my advice would be if it's something or a collection of sort of more minor things.

Could be an interesting opportunity to practice your communication skills, teach your friend about themselves a little more, give them an opportunity to grow and potentially even develop a stronger friendship, maybe.

Otherwise, you bring it up, who cares?

And you have a heart to heart about it and go from there.

If your friend is like, oh my God, I am such an asshole to you.

I'm so sorry.

I'm going to try to be better.