Emma Chamberlain
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
This person that you're no longer friends with goes out and tells everyone one of your deepest, darkest secrets.
Okay, what is the worst case scenario from that?
Does that secret hurt somebody's feelings?
Is it deeply embarrassing?
You know, what is it?
And then run through the entire scenario.
Okay, if this person goes and they tell everyone this thing about me or this thing that I said or this thing that I did,
Okay, well now that might be information that's a little bit more public.
Okay, if this calls me to action, I need to do something to solve this.
Okay, what is my plan?
You know, how do I solve this problem?
Do I need to call someone up and apologize?
Do I need to just accept the fact that people know something embarrassing about me?
Work through the worst case scenario.
Find a solution, create a solution, make a plan for the worst case scenario.
And you'll realize, okay, this isn't great, this isn't ideal, this isn't fun, but I could handle this if the worst case scenario happens.
If me and this person stop being friends and all of my secrets get aired out to the world, which probably won't even happen, right?
Like, yeah, maybe they'll tell a few people about a few things, maybe, if it's even that interesting to them.
Maybe, but it probably won't even extend out that far.
Like it'll probably never even get back to you.