Emma Chamberlain

You can spend your time differently.

If you want to spend two hours in a store, no one's going to say, wait, but I'm hungry.

Let's go get lunch or I'm bored.

I don't want to be in here anymore.

There's a lot of

magical things about going out and doing stuff alone.

So if you're struggling to motivate, let that motivate you as well.

Okay, next, somebody said, I love the guy I'm dating, but I've noticed that my mood is so dependent on him.

I don't like that.

How do I be less reliant on him for my mood?

Okay, in my experience, because I've experienced this before, this is usually a sign that your relationship is the center of your universe.

Okay, it's your main priority.

It makes up the majority of your foundation, your emotional foundation in your life.

Metaphorically, you've put too many of your eggs in one basket, the basket being him.

Your life is not balanced.

Your priorities are not balanced.

You're not putting your energy out in a balanced way.

You're putting too much energy on your romantic relationship.

And this is an easy mistake to make, okay?

Love can be all consuming.