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Emma Levine

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
358 total appearances

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Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

So actually a substantial amount, even if your partner is likely to recover, think it's acceptable to lie to them about cheating.

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

But this number goes up.

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

It almost doubles when you know your partner is about to pass away.

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

If your partner's about to pass away, in our particular vignette, we say they're likely to die within the next 24 hours.

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

Now, about 64% of participants believe the right thing to do is to lie.

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

And again, what's the value of this information?

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

Maybe it unburdens you as the communicator.

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

You want to get it off your chest at the last moment that you have with this person.

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

But for them...

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

This is just something that causes emotional harm and there's no relationship in which they can learn from this anymore.

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

think it really highlights the

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

This, you know, the story, the farewell takes place in China.

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

And particularly within the medical domain, there is a lot more emphasis in China than in the U.S.

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

on hope and protection.

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

And so it will feel maybe like an obligation among family members to protect their elders from negativity and despair, which comes from a cancer diagnosis.

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

And that's, you know, something you hear that Wang's father is proud of, proud of honoring that value.

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

And in the U.S., we don't really hear that, right?

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

In the U.S., there's much greater moral emphasis on autonomy, the duty to inform others above the duty to provide hope.

Hidden Brain
When It's Okay to Lie

And so I think you just see this come out in different ways where we have different moral attitudes towards honesty, particularly at this end-of-life situation.