Esther Perel
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5,077 appearances
21 recordings
15 series
first heard Sep 2024
last heard 21 Jun
Esther Perel’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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It said, intentional dating is a mindful approach to dating where people are clear about their goals, values, boundaries, and emotional capacity and choose partners based on alignment rather than casual exploration.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
It's fine.
But here's the thing.
Everything here is self-referential.
I know what I need.
I know who I am.
I know.
What about I'm open to meeting you?
This is so individualistic.
This is so all about me.
You know, a relationship is about this, this hand that goes out, that reaches, that brings you closer to me, that lets me look at you, that then lets me let you go again, then brings me back.
It's that.
It's a whole dance.
And what's missing in this is that it's not relational.
Your boundaries, your limits, your needs, your expectations, mine, mine, mine.
And it leaves us.
Why is it a problem?
Because it actually leaves us more alone.
Now, people will often say, but what about the people who it's all about the other?
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