Esther Perel
speaker
5,077 appearances
21 recordings
15 series
first heard Sep 2024
last heard 21 Jun
Esther Perel’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Of course, it's not one or the other.
It is about how do I connect with you without losing me?
What's important to me, my needs, my thoughts, my truth.
How do I stay connected to myself without disconnecting from you?
So good.
And in a relationship, you often have one person who has a tendency to be more holding on to themselves and another one who is more holding on to the other.
In other words, you often will see that there is one person who is more afraid of abandonment and one person who is more afraid of suffocation.
Yeah.
I'm afraid to lose you and you're afraid to lose yourself.
And this is the tension.
This has nothing to do with what music you listen to and what food you enjoy and where you like to travel.
Those are nice things to have.
And when you talk about me and my wife are different, it goes to those depths.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure.
Do you relate?
Completely, completely.
I...
Yeah, I think we get lost in do we like the same movies?
Do we like traveling to the same places?
I think we get lost in quite superficial conversations around what connection truly means.
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