Esther Perel
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
And the third one is respect and recognition.
Do you value me?
When you didn't invite me to join you, we can talk about how I wasn't included.
But the issue is I didn't feel valued.
I don't feel like I'm important in your life.
So power and control, care and closeness, and respect and recognition.
Power, trust, and value.
That's what most fights are about.
Shit.
If you get away from all the what, you will actually understand why people get so upset.
It's so... I'm so happy you're here.
I don't feel valued.
That's what hurts.
I don't feel valued.
You know what is the most beautiful power?
One of them.
There's so many.
But I have often said to people in sessions, I'm trying to think about an episode on the podcast that people could go listen to that kind of instantly speaks to that, where I say the person who apologizes first is often the person who has the most power.
Do you understand?
Roll that again because we feel the weakest, right?