Esther Perel
speaker
5,077 appearances
21 recordings
15 series
first heard Sep 2024
last heard 21 Jun
Esther Perel’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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So when the booger comes up, no, safe, you have to take risks.
You don't have to be safe.
You have to be safe, but at this moment, it's about taking risks.
It's the risk of allowing yourself to be different with him and to allow him to be different with you.
It's the risk to say we're going to have a second relationship with each other.
It's the risk that when the grudge comes up to look at it and say, you know what?
I really don't feel like dealing with you today.
I'm not invited here.
We're having a nice moment and you're coming in and you're kind of reminding me and poisoning my everyday life.
Please go and take a break for a minute.
And you just talk to the grudge.
It's you and your inner voice saying, I'm not going to let you rule my relationship.
You're a small part of our life.
And you certainly are going to prevent us from having any future if you continue.
And I'm holding it up because it's like you look at it.
Sometimes I think people should have like finger puppets.
And then you name it, you give it a name, that part of you that holds you back, that part of you that wants revenge, that part of you that feels that no amount of apology and recognition will ever be enough.
Yeah, because he really has.
He's written over the last two years.
It sounded like it.
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