Esther Perel

You know, all I hear is now they're talking about the closet, the door, the cat litter, the cat. And all I am thinking is what is it that they're really fighting about?

You know, all I hear is now they're talking about the closet, the door, the cat litter, the cat. And all I am thinking is what is it that they're really fighting about?

You know, all I hear is now they're talking about the closet, the door, the cat litter, the cat. And all I am thinking is what is it that they're really fighting about?

He's saying, you know the boss of me. Then you know the boss of me means, you know, he had a very dominant father who talked constantly. And so that's what he's fighting for. He's fighting about the closet, but he's fighting for power and control.

He's saying, you know the boss of me. Then you know the boss of me means, you know, he had a very dominant father who talked constantly. And so that's what he's fighting for. He's fighting about the closet, but he's fighting for power and control.

He's saying, you know the boss of me. Then you know the boss of me means, you know, he had a very dominant father who talked constantly. And so that's what he's fighting for. He's fighting about the closet, but he's fighting for power and control.

And your question is, how do I get her to want more?

And your question is, how do I get her to want more?

And your question is, how do I get her to want more?

Are you prepared to change tracks?

Are you prepared to change tracks?

Are you prepared to change tracks?

Yes.

Yes.

Yes.

Wonderful. Beautiful. Can I hear from you just a bit?

Wonderful. Beautiful. Can I hear from you just a bit?

Wonderful. Beautiful. Can I hear from you just a bit?

Maybe we first switch a little bit the way we think here, right? And that is very often when we think about sex, we think about an act and an outcome, something that we do. And instead of thinking of it like that, I would probably want to switch you to think more about an experience. Not what do you do in sex, but where do you go in sex? What parts of yourselves do you connect with?

Maybe we first switch a little bit the way we think here, right? And that is very often when we think about sex, we think about an act and an outcome, something that we do. And instead of thinking of it like that, I would probably want to switch you to think more about an experience. Not what do you do in sex, but where do you go in sex? What parts of yourselves do you connect with?