Esther Perel
speaker
5,077 appearances
21 recordings
15 series
first heard Sep 2024
last heard 21 Jun
Esther Perel’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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So the slightest one little thing opens up a whole Pandora box of all the disappointments that you have had, and you can start to, and you will, even in your speech, you're the same script.
Same thing.
And you go down the list.
And I can't believe this.
And you remember that.
And you never did anything about this.
And you basically don't allow for the relationship to heal, to repair.
There are ruptures.
The art of a relationship is repair.
Ruptures is a given.
That's obvious.
But to repair the actual ability to give yourself the opportunity to be with somebody who says, I'm changing.
I'm doing something different.
And to receive that, to really receive that, that's the vulnerability.
Being angry and being stuck and being stubborn and holding the grudge.
you know, that state of contraction like that, that is actually, it's pseudo protective.
It pretends to protect you, but it's bullshit.
Whereas the actual thing to say, you know, most people today are going to have, in the West anyway, are going to have two or three relationships or marriages in their lifetime.
Some of us will do it with the same person.
I just want to feel safe.
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