Esther Perel

You know, it's nice that you want her, but it's also a burden sometimes for her to feel that she constantly is your one outlet with whom you need that. Basically, in the end, she's doing it for you to take care of you. That's not what sex is supposed to be. So on occasion, that is, but not when it becomes. I just want to make sure he doesn't get upset.

You know, it's nice that you want her, but it's also a burden sometimes for her to feel that she constantly is your one outlet with whom you need that. Basically, in the end, she's doing it for you to take care of you. That's not what sex is supposed to be. So on occasion, that is, but not when it becomes. I just want to make sure he doesn't get upset.

You know, it's nice that you want her, but it's also a burden sometimes for her to feel that she constantly is your one outlet with whom you need that. Basically, in the end, she's doing it for you to take care of you. That's not what sex is supposed to be. So on occasion, that is, but not when it becomes. I just want to make sure he doesn't get upset.

And, you know, then the next day he's in a bad mood because he's that whole thing. It's nice for you to say to him, I like the reaction that you have. Maybe sometimes you take care of him. Maybe sometimes you take care of yourself. And you do it not in hiding. You do it next to her because it's okay. And then sometimes as she watches you, she may join you.

And, you know, then the next day he's in a bad mood because he's that whole thing. It's nice for you to say to him, I like the reaction that you have. Maybe sometimes you take care of him. Maybe sometimes you take care of yourself. And you do it not in hiding. You do it next to her because it's okay. And then sometimes as she watches you, she may join you.

And, you know, then the next day he's in a bad mood because he's that whole thing. It's nice for you to say to him, I like the reaction that you have. Maybe sometimes you take care of him. Maybe sometimes you take care of yourself. And you do it not in hiding. You do it next to her because it's okay. And then sometimes as she watches you, she may join you.

There's a lot of possibilities if you don't fall into the trap of on or off and afraid to do the slightest move because, my God, if he then reacts, then I'm going to have to service. That's under the subtext from this dynamic that you described.

There's a lot of possibilities if you don't fall into the trap of on or off and afraid to do the slightest move because, my God, if he then reacts, then I'm going to have to service. That's under the subtext from this dynamic that you described.

There's a lot of possibilities if you don't fall into the trap of on or off and afraid to do the slightest move because, my God, if he then reacts, then I'm going to have to service. That's under the subtext from this dynamic that you described.

And then on occasion, when you just call him and you, whatever it is, you take a bath together, shower together, something where he experiences your invitation. But the pressure is what you want to watch. Because you're a high energy guy and you release a lot sexually and there's nothing wrong with it. But you also have three other boys in this house.

And then on occasion, when you just call him and you, whatever it is, you take a bath together, shower together, something where he experiences your invitation. But the pressure is what you want to watch. Because you're a high energy guy and you release a lot sexually and there's nothing wrong with it. But you also have three other boys in this house.

And then on occasion, when you just call him and you, whatever it is, you take a bath together, shower together, something where he experiences your invitation. But the pressure is what you want to watch. Because you're a high energy guy and you release a lot sexually and there's nothing wrong with it. But you also have three other boys in this house.

And so, yes, it's very different from 10 years ago. And it may come back after the boys are older as well. This is, you know, so how do you... give yourself the permission to say, mom, time is off. I take off my apron. I take some time. I transition. I retrieve the woman from behind the mother. But it doesn't have to be the full operation each time.

And so, yes, it's very different from 10 years ago. And it may come back after the boys are older as well. This is, you know, so how do you... give yourself the permission to say, mom, time is off. I take off my apron. I take some time. I transition. I retrieve the woman from behind the mother. But it doesn't have to be the full operation each time.

And so, yes, it's very different from 10 years ago. And it may come back after the boys are older as well. This is, you know, so how do you... give yourself the permission to say, mom, time is off. I take off my apron. I take some time. I transition. I retrieve the woman from behind the mother. But it doesn't have to be the full operation each time.

It doesn't have to be the whole production because otherwise you are going to get her shutting down just because she's afraid that you're going to want the whole thing. And that is where the women start to really deprive themselves as well. That's the other thing. It's like it deprives because she enjoys being with you. That is not the point. You enjoy being together.

It doesn't have to be the whole production because otherwise you are going to get her shutting down just because she's afraid that you're going to want the whole thing. And that is where the women start to really deprive themselves as well. That's the other thing. It's like it deprives because she enjoys being with you. That is not the point. You enjoy being together.

It doesn't have to be the whole production because otherwise you are going to get her shutting down just because she's afraid that you're going to want the whole thing. And that is where the women start to really deprive themselves as well. That's the other thing. It's like it deprives because she enjoys being with you. That is not the point. You enjoy being together.

And you feel the vulnerability of the change of that balance. You feel that you are more reliant or dependent on your partner. And that is not the way that you've usually liked it because you've always made sure that you can stand on your own two feet.

And you feel the vulnerability of the change of that balance. You feel that you are more reliant or dependent on your partner. And that is not the way that you've usually liked it because you've always made sure that you can stand on your own two feet.