Eve Rodsky

The hardest thing, the biggest barrier to entry for fair play is actually

having the conversation.

So what I say in that situation, if you are somebody who you have a wonderful open helper in your home right now, then you can absolutely launch into the systems part of the conversation.

Hey, I found this really cool system.

It's like an Asana or Trello, and it's here to make our lives more efficient.

So I say there's three ways you can enter.

That's systems.

There's a secret formula, though, for entry.

And

There's two other ways.

One is boundaries and the other is communication.

So I call it like you can take a 20-second assessment.

We can ask your listeners to do that.

Do I struggle most with communication?

Do I struggle most with systems?

Do I struggle most with boundaries?

And I would say start with the thing that's hardest.

And what I mean by that is I struggled with all three when it was my turn to come up and think about how I was going to bring this up to Seth

But when I was struggling with all three, boundary systems and communication, I realized my boundaries for me were the hardest thing to rectify, meaning I kept breaching my boundaries.

I would say, I'm going to have Seth do bath tonight or I'm going to go out with my friends.