Filip Lundstedt
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192 appearances
2 recordings
2 series
first heard Mar 2025
last heard May 2025
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And the second time that I had lost all this wealth, I decided I'm going to become a broker so no one else can control my future. But that was a proverbial jumping off the edge. That was like two feet off the edge into the deep. That was like a big choice to make because I didn't have any money. And I had bills and I had responsibilities. So I was like, okay, now I've got to work a lot.
And I worked three jobs for about three and a half years. And I sacrificed all my time. And it was really just to plug in.
and make sure that i was earning an income and i was able to chase this dream that i wanted which was to become an insurance broker and i had people in my camp that were like maybe you shouldn't do this maybe you should be in real estate maybe you should do that maybe you should do this and i was i had a good friend of mine who's a mentor tim ramick who was like no man you just got to stay the course don't listen to those people they love you they don't know any better stay the course stay the course i promise you i promise you it'll work out and he was right you know about
Yeah. Yeah. No, it's true. So doing all that, it really, it made me disciplined and it also taught me the lesson that I can go through anything and rebuild myself. Multiple times. Multiple times. Multiple times.
I would say you gotta set the right expectation that it's never gonna get easier. Because the more peaks and ditches that you go through, the next peak is higher than the last one you hit. Which means the climb up is worse. And the way down is worse. So it gets worse, but better.
And it's important to build resilience within yourself and a belief system that you can tether to that says this is possible. I will make it through this. We were we were meant to go through difficult times. Yeah. Built for it, right? Like that's the unique thing of being a human being is no one's coming to save us because we're already saved and our destinies are in front of us to be great.
And it's just a matter of you checking the boxes and doing the things every single day to get better and just reach that point.
The biggest one is ask for help. Never think, I got this on my own. I don't need anybody. I'm going to do this on my own. No. If you ask for help, you'll be surprised on how many people will help you. And it's usually our own fears and our insecurities that make us think nobody cares about me. It's not true. There are people out there that you could meet.
You could just do the success clues, right? You could look for the people that have done it. And you just reach out, you just cold call them and say, listen, I'm struggling and I'm looking for a mentor. Can I buy you a cup of coffee? Could I pay you $100 to spend 10 minutes with me? Just something outrageous. And they may say no. But they may say yes.
And if they said yes, it could be all the difference for you.
Yeah. I paid a guy 1600 bucks to spend like six hours with him. And he's, you know, just does a tremendous job and takes care of his clients and has amazing systems. And I was like, can I just pay you money to sit with you? And he was like, well, I'm running this bootcamp thing. I said, I'm in. $1,600, I'm in. I'll be right there. I literally got back from vacation and drove straight there.
Boom, boom. And it was great. I learned a ton, and I was able to sit with him, and now I've got a friend. It's like, here's my cell phone. You call me whenever you want. Text me whenever you want. So the $1,600 was priceless. Yeah. Because now I get to reach out to him all the time because he saw I asked him for help. I'm like, I'm an established guy, but you're doing what I want to do.
No, it's 100% true. And it's even just a gesture because I know a guy that's young, 23 years old, and he's a public adjuster. And he's like, I'm struggling with my networking. And I said, well, you really got to play on the heartstrings, right? You got to make people feel sorry for you. And you got to get them to back your mission. And this guy's 23 years old.
He was living in a storage unit, right? Like, I mean, dead broke living in a storage unit. Now he's making money. He's crushing it in public adjusting. He just wants more referrals. And I say, you got to tell that story to people. You've got to lock them down and say, listen, man, your story is inspiring. I'm looking for mentorship. Can I buy you lunch? Can I just take you out for lunch, man?
And you do that on a regular basis. Can we do this every month? You just ask. They say, no, great, next one. You'd be surprised at who's going to teach you stuff and plug you in where you need to be to where you can have this major success. Everybody's looking for this macro movement that's so big that it's scary for anybody. It's like, well, what are the little things that you're changing?
How many books do you read, right? How many events or seminars do you go to, right? And there's lots of guys that do free events that you can go to. Tony Robbins and Grant Cardone and all these big guys. And you go to one of those events and people always downplay them.
You go to one of those events and it will set you on an addiction and trajectory of wanting more and more knowledge about oneself and your own belief system.
Legacy for me means being able to be successful with the setup of doing more for other people than I expect in return. Like that? And passing that impact on to everybody that I come in touch with and having that being a provable system over the years and handing that down to my brokers, my daughters, and everybody that I come in touch with.
Invest in yourself. Don't buy the car. Don't buy the house. Spend the money on you. And even though it might be $10,000, $100,000, it'll be scary. But when you do it and you jump off that ledge with belief in your own self, there's no investment that will pay you more.
I really think you're going to understand some of the strategies and some of the nuances of insurance and how you can win some simple changes, some simple concepts. And you're also going to learn that at my company, at ProCare, there's a lot of availability to meet with us. And we don't charge any consulting fees where we help people, give them strategies, multiple strategies to help them win.
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