Finneas
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333 appearances
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first heard Dec 2024
last heard Dec 2024
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He didn't think he did. And my mom... was like, I most want to have kids with you, but I want to have kids. Like that's the important thing to me in the rest of my life. If you don't ever want to have kids, I respect that. But then I have to go find somebody who wants to have kids. And he sort of thought about it.
And I think one of the things she said to him, which I think is really smart, was she was like, listen, we have a great relationship. You don't want to leave this relationship. You're not sure about having kids. You leave this relationship, you go marry somebody else. Maybe they'll be desperate to have kids anyway. And you'll be in the same position you are now.
maybe you'll get somebody pregnant accidentally and you'll have a kid whatever like she was like this is the right way to do it and i think it really made an impact on him and he now says that it's having kids is the best decision you've ever made but i think it's a it's a i only bring it up because it's a person who didn't think they wanted to have kids and now they're thinking that it was a great idea ultimately okay i really want to have kids so i'm not in you do yeah do you
I think vulnerability, public facing vulnerability is like a real superpower. It is. I don't know that I super have it, but I think you have it. And I think the housewives have it.
You should just go have an arc on it.
Yeah. Go be a friend.
Tough. I really empathize. Me too. Boyfriends that you don't like, huge drag.
And, you know, depends on... That person sounds really unpleasant. Right. But it doesn't sound like they're like a verbally abusive boyfriend. Right. I'm not hearing like a thing worth breaking up over.
I don't know if there's anything you can say. Because it's all going to come off as just like super judgmental.
Yeah. If you have a friend who's got a partner that is mistreating them, I think you should at least at some point.
I don't think that's okay.
But if you're just like, I don't think they're funny. I hate the way they mansplained. You know what I mean? That's tough.
I did. Amazing show.
I think what I would do, this is my prescription. I think if you can, as the friend, without ever being mean or making the person, I think if you let your actions reflect, you'd prefer to just be with your friend and not be around their boyfriend, you know?
I think that that subliminally does impact, you know what I mean?
When like, I've been in a relationship with Claudia for like six years and like, I'm pretty aware that like my friends really like Claudia. You know what I mean? And they like, I have friends that are girls that hang out with Claudia separately for, you know what I mean? There's a kind of a like, Oh, I know that they get along. This person has like a high approval rating in my life.
And I've had girlfriends in my life that have a low approval rating or the, where I love them. But the people around me are like,
I think as the relationship goes on, it is in the back of your mind of like, I don't think my friends like this. My friends who I trust and love are not crazy about this person I'm dating. Do you know what I mean? Like, I think if you're the roommate from college or high school or whatever that this example is. Right. You don't have to verbally say, I don't fuck with your boyfriend.
But I think if your actions are like, hey, maybe you and your boyfriend shouldn't. I really loved living with you, but you and your, you know what I mean? If you kind of reflect that you're like not crazy about them, I think that that's impactful.
Yeah, if you argue with their boyfriend, that's also sick.
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