Florence Given
speaker
9,492 appearances
21 recordings
1 series
first heard Apr 2026
last heard 5d ago
Florence Given’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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recordings per month · last 12 monthsRecordings per month over the last 12 months — 21 in all, peaking in Jun 2026 with 5.
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Is it costing you an entire life that could be lived?
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authentically wildly beautifully deliciously in the way that you fucking want to there's a big cost for not disappointing people and the cost that you pay for disappointing people is having another human being experience an uncomfortable emotion which by the way an emotion lasts three minutes in the body
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It's that or it's a lifetime of disappointment and regret for you.
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Disappoint as many people as it takes to choose yourself.
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Let as many people down in your life as it takes to live the life that is most authentically yours, to shed all of those fucking bullshit masks and skins and versions of yourself that you've created in your life to receive and approve love.
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Because if you just sort of keep living behind this mask anyway, it's not really real.
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And eventually so much anger is going to build up behind that mask.
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It's just going to explode and it's going to hurt people 10 times more because no one saw it fucking coming.
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disappoint as many people as it takes to choose yourself and you know what I mean when I say that I'm not talking about going around making promises to people and then and then and disappointing them and then breaking them on purpose okay but when there's that fork in the road and there's a decision a really important decision that you have to make and it's do I make this person happy and and really betray myself to like keep them happy or do I disappoint them and choose myself choose you
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Because you're always going to have that little kernel of resentment for choosing them.
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Women die with entire lives inside them that they never got to live.
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And I can't think of anything more shit than that.
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I've done a lot of writing about this, a lot of writing about this.
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How are you going to disappoint someone this week?
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Let me know in the comments, okay?
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How are you choosing yourself?
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How are you going to choose yourself this week?
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How are you going to put yourself first in a way that kind of feels fucking uncomfortable?
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And I'm finally going to get to share my secret project with you.
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At the end of this month, the 29th of September, we're a few weeks away now.
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