Frances Cook

But it doesn't feel silly, does it?

Yeah, yeah.

It is funny, though, you saying about the making friends thing, because when we moved from Hamilton to Tiaramutu, I like having my little cohort.

Yeah.

I like my little tight click.

And I literally, a few months ago, I said to my husband, I was like, I've chosen some new friend targets.

This one and this one.

Here's my strategies for them.

What do you think?

They will be my friends.

I've decided.

They just don't know it yet.

You're recruiting.

Yeah.

And really, really actively taking control of some of those things and being quite strategic about it.

Because I need to have a little think about what my unbearable feeling would be because I thought I had a little inkling.

But as you've talked through it, I'm like, oh, maybe not.

But I definitely like to have my little cohort of people who I like, who I know.

And when I moved, we had to reshuffle some stuff.

And I just have found that being quite actively like, oh, here's a bit that's missing from my life and I'm chasing it has felt so much better.