Frances Fry
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Podcast Appearances
In my distortion field, the longer away I am from something, I tend to put more of a halo on it.
So I do think I have a Dunning, I think I'm very objective.
With distance.
But I do, with distance, it just gets better.
It's like how I interpret silence as applause.
Other people interpret silence as concern.
Yeah.
What I would say to that is that your solution is the solution for people that live an examined life.
My solution is for everyone else.
I look forward to it.
So I do think our, how we respond to failure, even small f failure in the meeting, I didn't use the right words, you know, just whatever the small f failure is.
I do think if we do it with curiosity about how I might do it better next time versus judgment, oh my gosh, I didn't achieve.
I bet the judgy version of us like widens the imposter syndrome.
It makes the distortion field wider.
Oh, it's a two by two.
We got a 45 degree angle dotted line.
We got the whole graphic.
No, because I can accurately tell if it's a pebble or a boulder.
And you will sometimes mistake pebbles for boulders.
Yeah, she's the perfect messenger for the two-dimensionality of there's success and failure, and you can shoot happy face, frowny face.