Francis Foster

And she's 30.

And I was like, and she went, I can't really date people of my own age, men of my own age.

I'm like, why not?

And she went, because they have the look.

They get the look.

I went, what do you mean by the look?

And she said, it's when I know they've watched too much porn and they look at me and I can tell that even though we're having a drink, we're having dinner, they're already fantasizing about what they're doing to my body.

A saying that kept coming up as I was reading the book was, a little information is a dangerous thing.

You listen to the way people talk, you go, was every one of your exes a narcissist?

Literally every single one of them had NPD, which is quite a rare disorder.

And one of it is, I'm not saying you may have dated a narcissist, but one of the two traits of narcissism is a fundamental inability to empathize with others.

Yeah.

And you just go, come on, not everyone is a narcissist, not everyone has autism, not everyone has ADHD.

Exactly.

I remember a friend of mine, his nephew, his family were talking about whether he has ADHD.

And I was like, and they asked me, because you're a teacher, what do you think?

And I went, he's three years old.

That's what he does.

Little boys go around messing stuff up.

That's what they are.