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Freya India

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

So if you look at these kind of attachment style forums or girls talking about their attachment styles, very often they'll describe just a bad relationship and then they'll say, oh, it's my attachment disorder. So they'll be like, he cheated on me and I can't get over it because of my anxious attachment. And it's like...

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

So if you look at these kind of attachment style forums or girls talking about their attachment styles, very often they'll describe just a bad relationship and then they'll say, oh, it's my attachment disorder. So they'll be like, he cheated on me and I can't get over it because of my anxious attachment. And it's like...

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

It's so sad because they're actually losing the language to talk about the actual problem that they're facing because they're trying to get control. Because it's a lot easier to be like, oh, you know, I'm anxious or he's avoidant than we have a terrible relationship and I've just wasted four years with someone. You get the control through the therapy culture.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

It's so sad because they're actually losing the language to talk about the actual problem that they're facing because they're trying to get control. Because it's a lot easier to be like, oh, you know, I'm anxious or he's avoidant than we have a terrible relationship and I've just wasted four years with someone. You get the control through the therapy culture.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

It's so sad because they're actually losing the language to talk about the actual problem that they're facing because they're trying to get control. Because it's a lot easier to be like, oh, you know, I'm anxious or he's avoidant than we have a terrible relationship and I've just wasted four years with someone. You get the control through the therapy culture.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

So that's where I see it becoming a danger to girls and young women.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

So that's where I see it becoming a danger to girls and young women.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

So that's where I see it becoming a danger to girls and young women.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

Yeah. So I think for the first time in history, young women are less religious than young men now.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

Yeah. So I think for the first time in history, young women are less religious than young men now.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

Yeah. So I think for the first time in history, young women are less religious than young men now.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

Yeah. But among Gen Z, it's men that are going to church way more than women now. And Jonathan Haidt did some research on this showing that he like presented, he looked at a survey of statements and they were things like, I have no hope in myself. I don't believe, like really self disparaging statements.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

Yeah. But among Gen Z, it's men that are going to church way more than women now. And Jonathan Haidt did some research on this showing that he like presented, he looked at a survey of statements and they were things like, I have no hope in myself. I don't believe, like really self disparaging statements.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

Yeah. But among Gen Z, it's men that are going to church way more than women now. And Jonathan Haidt did some research on this showing that he like presented, he looked at a survey of statements and they were things like, I have no hope in myself. I don't believe, like really self disparaging statements.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

And he found that teenagers without religion agreed with them way stronger than teenagers who were religious and especially who were conservative. And I think there's a couple of reasons for that. I think one is kind of the external locus of control. So conservatives tend to have more control.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

And he found that teenagers without religion agreed with them way stronger than teenagers who were religious and especially who were conservative. And I think there's a couple of reasons for that. I think one is kind of the external locus of control. So conservatives tend to have more control.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

And he found that teenagers without religion agreed with them way stronger than teenagers who were religious and especially who were conservative. And I think there's a couple of reasons for that. I think one is kind of the external locus of control. So conservatives tend to have more control.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

um of an internal locus of control so they feel more control over things happening in their lives also if you're conservative teenager you're more likely to be living with both parents which i think protects your mental health um and also your parents are more likely to have clearer boundaries with you um which i think is actually very useful for anxiety and depression.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

um of an internal locus of control so they feel more control over things happening in their lives also if you're conservative teenager you're more likely to be living with both parents which i think protects your mental health um and also your parents are more likely to have clearer boundaries with you um which i think is actually very useful for anxiety and depression.

Modern Wisdom
#916 - Freya India - Why Modern Women Feel More Lost Than Ever

um of an internal locus of control so they feel more control over things happening in their lives also if you're conservative teenager you're more likely to be living with both parents which i think protects your mental health um and also your parents are more likely to have clearer boundaries with you um which i think is actually very useful for anxiety and depression.