Freya India

It is an attachment problem, just the wording has been completely ruined. But if you do have that, you kind of need to be with someone to work on it. Because if you're single, you're going to feel great. Because there's no one kind of triggering you and making you feel anxious and abandoned.

It is an attachment problem, just the wording has been completely ruined. But if you do have that, you kind of need to be with someone to work on it. Because if you're single, you're going to feel great. Because there's no one kind of triggering you and making you feel anxious and abandoned.

It is an attachment problem, just the wording has been completely ruined. But if you do have that, you kind of need to be with someone to work on it. Because if you're single, you're going to feel great. Because there's no one kind of triggering you and making you feel anxious and abandoned.

um so you do need someone in your life in in that scenario um so yeah loneliness then does seem like it's extremely attractive because you feel better when you're alone the same with the productivity stuff i think it's just the message that's missing for both young women and young men is like it's actually okay to depend on someone and to need other people like humans have always needed other people and define themselves by

um so you do need someone in your life in in that scenario um so yeah loneliness then does seem like it's extremely attractive because you feel better when you're alone the same with the productivity stuff i think it's just the message that's missing for both young women and young men is like it's actually okay to depend on someone and to need other people like humans have always needed other people and define themselves by

um so you do need someone in your life in in that scenario um so yeah loneliness then does seem like it's extremely attractive because you feel better when you're alone the same with the productivity stuff i think it's just the message that's missing for both young women and young men is like it's actually okay to depend on someone and to need other people like humans have always needed other people and define themselves by

their ties and obligations to other people and now we're kind of like no you can you can be self-sufficient enough and driven enough and healed enough that you're okay alone and i think that's really quite a strong message for young young women here which is like the worst thing you can be is needy like do not ever need someone and the worst situation for you is to end up with a guy that you need like that's just you need to avoid that all costs and it's

their ties and obligations to other people and now we're kind of like no you can you can be self-sufficient enough and driven enough and healed enough that you're okay alone and i think that's really quite a strong message for young young women here which is like the worst thing you can be is needy like do not ever need someone and the worst situation for you is to end up with a guy that you need like that's just you need to avoid that all costs and it's

their ties and obligations to other people and now we're kind of like no you can you can be self-sufficient enough and driven enough and healed enough that you're okay alone and i think that's really quite a strong message for young young women here which is like the worst thing you can be is needy like do not ever need someone and the worst situation for you is to end up with a guy that you need like that's just you need to avoid that all costs and it's

It's a really sad message because it's like, is that not love to need someone and they need you? And it's kind of a beautiful thing to rely on someone and have someone who's dependent on you. And actually, a lot of the actual attachment research shows that. Have you heard of the dependency paradox?

It's a really sad message because it's like, is that not love to need someone and they need you? And it's kind of a beautiful thing to rely on someone and have someone who's dependent on you. And actually, a lot of the actual attachment research shows that. Have you heard of the dependency paradox?

It's a really sad message because it's like, is that not love to need someone and they need you? And it's kind of a beautiful thing to rely on someone and have someone who's dependent on you. And actually, a lot of the actual attachment research shows that. Have you heard of the dependency paradox?

um that couples who are more dependent on each other become more independent in their lives so there was like studies showing that um i think they got couples to do like games or puzzles and then they had to fill out a survey of you know how much do you respond to your partner's needs um basically how dependent are you on each other and the ones that were more dependent um

um that couples who are more dependent on each other become more independent in their lives so there was like studies showing that um i think they got couples to do like games or puzzles and then they had to fill out a survey of you know how much do you respond to your partner's needs um basically how dependent are you on each other and the ones that were more dependent um

um that couples who are more dependent on each other become more independent in their lives so there was like studies showing that um i think they got couples to do like games or puzzles and then they had to fill out a survey of you know how much do you respond to your partner's needs um basically how dependent are you on each other and the ones that were more dependent um

didn't want to hear like, I think it was the clues or the answers from their partner. They wanted to do it independently. And then they followed up and they found that the couples more dependent on each other had met their independent goals six months down the line.

didn't want to hear like, I think it was the clues or the answers from their partner. They wanted to do it independently. And then they followed up and they found that the couples more dependent on each other had met their independent goals six months down the line.

didn't want to hear like, I think it was the clues or the answers from their partner. They wanted to do it independently. And then they followed up and they found that the couples more dependent on each other had met their independent goals six months down the line.

Because it's like the original Mary Ainsworth experiments where the caregiver leaves and they kind of measure how the child responds. You need like a stable, secure relationship to feel confident to go and explore the world. You need to have like something to hold on to, to step off.

Because it's like the original Mary Ainsworth experiments where the caregiver leaves and they kind of measure how the child responds. You need like a stable, secure relationship to feel confident to go and explore the world. You need to have like something to hold on to, to step off.