Freya India

And it's like, we used to just call that love. And, you know, that was a trait that we treasured in people, people who put their partner's needs first.

And it's like, we used to just call that love. And, you know, that was a trait that we treasured in people, people who put their partner's needs first.

And obviously that can go too far, but I think the problem is now we only pathologize dependence and we glamorize independence. And we never say, yeah, that being dependent on someone, having a long-term relationship doesn't mean that you lose yourself. You can actually find yourself through that.

And obviously that can go too far, but I think the problem is now we only pathologize dependence and we glamorize independence. And we never say, yeah, that being dependent on someone, having a long-term relationship doesn't mean that you lose yourself. You can actually find yourself through that.

And obviously that can go too far, but I think the problem is now we only pathologize dependence and we glamorize independence. And we never say, yeah, that being dependent on someone, having a long-term relationship doesn't mean that you lose yourself. You can actually find yourself through that.

But I think girls in particular, young women in particular, have just been told, yeah, the worst thing in your life is to need someone. Yeah.

But I think girls in particular, young women in particular, have just been told, yeah, the worst thing in your life is to need someone. Yeah.

But I think girls in particular, young women in particular, have just been told, yeah, the worst thing in your life is to need someone. Yeah.

Yeah, I think that's where it comes from. And that's why it's especially tragic because you have a lot of young women, for example, whose families fell apart. And then they grew up thinking, well, I just want to have that myself. I want to have a loving relationship and a family.

Yeah, I think that's where it comes from. And that's why it's especially tragic because you have a lot of young women, for example, whose families fell apart. And then they grew up thinking, well, I just want to have that myself. I want to have a loving relationship and a family.

Yeah, I think that's where it comes from. And that's why it's especially tragic because you have a lot of young women, for example, whose families fell apart. And then they grew up thinking, well, I just want to have that myself. I want to have a loving relationship and a family.

And then they kind of get told, whether it's through therapy culture or some of the feminist stuff online, you kind of implicitly get told that's a problem.

And then they kind of get told, whether it's through therapy culture or some of the feminist stuff online, you kind of implicitly get told that's a problem.

And then they kind of get told, whether it's through therapy culture or some of the feminist stuff online, you kind of implicitly get told that's a problem.

like if you again if your dream is to depend on someone you should work on yourself you need to work on your self-love you need to believe in yourself more you need to be healed alone and um you think of like a normal thinking feeling young girl of course she wants to be in a romantic relationship and of course she wants to depend on someone in some way it's completely natural but

like if you again if your dream is to depend on someone you should work on yourself you need to work on your self-love you need to believe in yourself more you need to be healed alone and um you think of like a normal thinking feeling young girl of course she wants to be in a romantic relationship and of course she wants to depend on someone in some way it's completely natural but

like if you again if your dream is to depend on someone you should work on yourself you need to work on your self-love you need to believe in yourself more you need to be healed alone and um you think of like a normal thinking feeling young girl of course she wants to be in a romantic relationship and of course she wants to depend on someone in some way it's completely natural but

Um, but I think you have young women thinking, oh, I need to get to a position where I'm confident, completely confident alone. I'm healed alone. I don't have any anxiety. Um, then I can allow a partner in, but I don't see that as the way that people operate.

Um, but I think you have young women thinking, oh, I need to get to a position where I'm confident, completely confident alone. I'm healed alone. I don't have any anxiety. Um, then I can allow a partner in, but I don't see that as the way that people operate.

Um, but I think you have young women thinking, oh, I need to get to a position where I'm confident, completely confident alone. I'm healed alone. I don't have any anxiety. Um, then I can allow a partner in, but I don't see that as the way that people operate.