Freya India

And I think what it does is it blocks real self-development because you can't see... where you're going wrong because you have these endless excuses for why you're behaving the way you are.

And I think what it does is it blocks real self-development because you can't see... where you're going wrong because you have these endless excuses for why you're behaving the way you are.

So I think a lot of girls think they're doing self-development and self-reflection, but it's actually accidentally like self-obsession because they're thinking, oh, you know, I'm analyzing my attachment style and I'm thinking about my trauma and I'm like doing the work. But there's not much actual self-development going on.

So I think a lot of girls think they're doing self-development and self-reflection, but it's actually accidentally like self-obsession because they're thinking, oh, you know, I'm analyzing my attachment style and I'm thinking about my trauma and I'm like doing the work. But there's not much actual self-development going on.

So I think a lot of girls think they're doing self-development and self-reflection, but it's actually accidentally like self-obsession because they're thinking, oh, you know, I'm analyzing my attachment style and I'm thinking about my trauma and I'm like doing the work. But there's not much actual self-development going on.

Yeah. And I think it can kind of be a trap where you think, I'm working on myself as a person. And the same with the self-optimization stuff. I think you can get so obsessed with stuff like maybe the ice baths and the breath work that you're not thinking about trying to be a better person. It just becomes...

Yeah. And I think it can kind of be a trap where you think, I'm working on myself as a person. And the same with the self-optimization stuff. I think you can get so obsessed with stuff like maybe the ice baths and the breath work that you're not thinking about trying to be a better person. It just becomes...

Yeah. And I think it can kind of be a trap where you think, I'm working on myself as a person. And the same with the self-optimization stuff. I think you can get so obsessed with stuff like maybe the ice baths and the breath work that you're not thinking about trying to be a better person. It just becomes...

It's kind of like the highlighter girls who, like girls who have like the perfect highlighters and gel pens for their exam, but they get like a D because they were obsessing over having the perfect setup.

It's kind of like the highlighter girls who, like girls who have like the perfect highlighters and gel pens for their exam, but they get like a D because they were obsessing over having the perfect setup.

It's kind of like the highlighter girls who, like girls who have like the perfect highlighters and gel pens for their exam, but they get like a D because they were obsessing over having the perfect setup.

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Yeah, and it's funny because there's a lot of emphasis on women walking away from disrespect and not tolerating any bad behavior. But there's also kind of this self-pitying stuff going on. So it's like... Real empowerment would be very often, I'm not tolerating this, I'm walking away, but you look online now and there's a lot of young women who just ruminate over a problem.

Yeah, and it's funny because there's a lot of emphasis on women walking away from disrespect and not tolerating any bad behavior. But there's also kind of this self-pitying stuff going on. So it's like... Real empowerment would be very often, I'm not tolerating this, I'm walking away, but you look online now and there's a lot of young women who just ruminate over a problem.

Yeah, and it's funny because there's a lot of emphasis on women walking away from disrespect and not tolerating any bad behavior. But there's also kind of this self-pitying stuff going on. So it's like... Real empowerment would be very often, I'm not tolerating this, I'm walking away, but you look online now and there's a lot of young women who just ruminate over a problem.

So like I was saying before, they might be in a bad relationship and they'll be analyzing both of their attachment styles and thinking about how it's toxic and talking to other girls about it rather than just leaving. And so I think sometimes young women, like me as well, get caught up in analyzing and not the actual action.

So like I was saying before, they might be in a bad relationship and they'll be analyzing both of their attachment styles and thinking about how it's toxic and talking to other girls about it rather than just leaving. And so I think sometimes young women, like me as well, get caught up in analyzing and not the actual action.

So like I was saying before, they might be in a bad relationship and they'll be analyzing both of their attachment styles and thinking about how it's toxic and talking to other girls about it rather than just leaving. And so I think sometimes young women, like me as well, get caught up in analyzing and not the actual action.