Gabe Polsky

And also, you've got to...

really anticipate that people are going to change, you know, that, that nobody stays the same.

That's not the point of life is to stay the same.

It's to people are growing, they're doing different things and to anticipate that.

And then really, I think, make that just commitment to, to kind of go with it and not, not fight against it.

Like all the time.

I'm the same.

Not now, but...

And having kids really helps with taking that kind of perspective, too, especially like with your own parents.

Like once you have a kid thinking about your own parents, how they dealt with you and having a little bit of respect for that, you know, being a dad and having a dad, you know,

Oh, yes.

And other people too, like you're saying.

But I don't know what that is.

I had that same thing about judging everybody.

And it's a weird, where does that come from?

It's like you can't, even if you're self-aware, you're like, why did I keep doing that?

Like if you're an organism... You have to size everything up.

so yeah i don't know that's my theory about that but it doesn't help you the thing is is you think you get this buzz off it but i really think it makes you feel worse yeah it does it's kind of like when you're in grade school doing that you know it starts there almost oh for sure kids making fun of other kids and so you still feel like when you're an adult doing that you feel like you're a kid essentially still but i yeah i mean

Yeah.

With comedy, though, don't you always have to be observing?