Gabriel Mizrahi

Okay.

She had a therapist, but I could never tell if he actually helped.

We tried marital counseling once.

She actively resisted going at first, and then it was a passive resistance.

She does that with a lot of things.

Actually, she'll make a social plan and then decide that she doesn't want to go.

or claim an illness or medical procedure as an excuse to get out of it, when the reality is she didn't want to.

I've seen her do this enough times to know that it's not always true.

Here's the real problem I'm currently dealing with.

She literally lives in our bedroom, in our apartment.

She never leaves except to shower, use the bathroom, or go to medical appointments.

She claims to want to train for various races, but really she's interested in making it look like she's training to the outside world.

And she even tries to fool me by claiming she was exercising.

I know where the workout equipment is in the house, and I know it hasn't been touched.

I feel duped, ashamed, and hurt.

I work full time.

I take care of all of our pets.

I do the laundry and the dishes.

I bring her every meal she eats.

Sometimes I cook.