Gabriel Mizrahi

I want to ask them while I can so I don't end up with this regret again in the future.

Yeah.

So I think when you do something constructive with a wound or a regret, it does start to shift.

It often doesn't hurt as much or it doesn't only hurt, right?

It hurts and it takes on new meaning.

And that meaning is the real reward.

In my view, it's actually probably why these mistakes have to happen because

I'm putting mistakes in big air quotes, you know, why they have to happen to generate opportunities for this kind of meaning making so that we can have that experience and then hopefully evolve.

At which point, forgiving yourself becomes a lot easier because it's like, okay, I can forgive myself for what I did or what I didn't do because I have this meaning now, because it showed me something important, something that had I known it in advance, I wouldn't have made the mistake in the first place, right?

So this had to happen.

And yes, it hurts.

But in a weird way, I'm kind of grateful I made this mistake.

And so now I can forgive myself for that.

You, of course, are a manscaping clipper.

I hope you know that.

Dear Jordan and Gabe, I'm 38 and I have a very fulfilling career and a very fulfilling marriage.

We're both professionals and both educated.

And as soon as we had our children, two of them, we set up savings account for each of them, a general trust fund and a college fund.

So we are absolutely in a position to welcome more children.

Meanwhile, all of my siblings have special needs children.