Gareth Southgate

alpha males and superstar players and talking about now by the way I mean not every story can be about things that went wrong because they'll start to think has he got a clue what he's doing so but you know I think I think in that environment

It's a very macho, you've been around sport long enough to know men's sport, what that all looks like.

But I think people are changing as well.

The way we lead people is changing.

I don't think they'll just give respect to an authoritarian leader.

You've got to earn their respect even more.

I think younger generations, it's not about a title anymore.

It's how you treat them.

It's how you engage with them.

So I think that timing of the way... My style is always going to be that way because that's how I am.

And maybe the timing of that is good for me, that professional football, professional sports changing a little bit.

The expected communication isn't just directive, demanding.

There are moments you've got to do that, but...

People want to see what we call softer skills, but critical skills, really.

It's not soft.

Yeah.

For us in that moment, it was about the process that gives us the best percentage chance of winning.

And people criticised Raheem Sterling for not taking a penalty, Jack Grealish, but that wasn't their call.

I didn't put Raheem in that position on that night.

He was a more experienced player.