Gary Brecka

how do you go about doing it?

What are the hacks?

I mean, or what are the exercises that you go through very specifically?

Like, you know, should I sit down with my spouse and say, hey, what are your non-negotiables?

And here's my non-negotiables.

I mean, should we open that conversation?

Like, and so to deepen the relationships that we have, because I don't think connection comes from the time you spend around people.

I think it comes from the time that you are actually connected with them.

It's quality.

There are a lot of houses full of husbands and wives and kids that don't really know each other.

They coexist.

It's more of like a cohabitating place.

There's just a dependency.

But I don't know that they've really woven that fabric.

Exactly.

And how much of this is us...

setting the wrong expectation and being let down because we framed an unexpected outcome and when it doesn't happen, we're let down.

You know, because, you know, in the infrequent times where, you know, Sage and I have disagreement, it's usually because, at least from my perspective, that I've set an expectation for how she should behave.

Yeah.

That...