Gary Brecka

is not anywhere in line.

There's no basis for me to do that.

Like we have, you know, I have invited a bunch of guests over to the house that I didn't tell her were coming and they're there and she's in her pajamas working on the computer.

And I expect her to get dressed and come out and be happy and be engaging and come out and meet these people.

And she's like, no, I'm actually doing work in here.

I didn't know they were coming over.

You didn't tell me.

And then I'm upset with her, you know?

And then when I reframe it, I'm like,

You know what?

I don't know why I set that expectation on her.

Yeah.

I'd be actually pretty upset if she set that expectation on me.

Yeah.

You know, at least give me the courtesy if you're going to, you know, if you want me to be socially engaging with a bunch of new strangers, at least give me a heads up that they're coming to, which is springing on me.

Yeah.

Oh, dude, you're hitting all the high points.

So does my wife.

I'm like, if there are no tennis shoes on the counter, we're doing well.

We're going to meet her definition.