Gary Brecka

And,

And I think a lot of people don't recognize how powerful that is in a negative sense.

Yeah.

He's like, we dropped the most beautiful bomb ever.

No one could drop a bomb as beautiful as I am.

I'm the only person in the world that could.

There's definitely an ego there.

There's definitely a lot of ego there.

And so how do people just draw awareness to that?

I find a lot of your content so refreshing, like 10 years of therapy in 10 minutes.

And I've watched that several times because it made me realize partially why I'm so happy in my current relationship.

why we had become different people in my previous relationship.

And a lot of it was so poignant and so refreshing.

Part of what you talked about was how when you're in a relationship, especially a marriage, you're not just signing up

for that person and your interaction between yourselves, you're signing up for everything, their entire ecosystem.

The time they go to bed, their sleep patterns.

Their family.

And you don't, you don't run into those things until, I mean, you can do 10 years deep and start and still be, um, I, I will say I'm, I am the most deeply content that I've ever been in my adult lifetime.

Um, amazing spouse, Sage.

I'm like obsessed with her.