Gary Brecka

Yeah.

We really do create our, our own reality.

And you know, what's interesting is my wife and I were having this conversation the other day, as I look back on some of the most, what I would consider to be the most traumatic things that happened in our business or even in our, even in our marriage.

And, um, they turned out to be,

turning points that led to great things.

And so now I can actually look back on them as little blessings along the way.

Cause I go, you know what?

If this person hadn't stolen from me and completely tried to screw me over and I had to fire her,

I would have never actually gone in this direction.

I would have never brought this person onto my team, which actually took us to the next level.

There's so many of those points and you can focus all your vitriol on what this person did to you or that person did to you or the moments where you failed or you can go, that's actually what led to this.

decision i mean most of the time when your back's against the wall you make the you know you make some really ingenious decisions that lead to good why is it there's all these people in business that are like you know so unscrupulous you know yeah it's it is so true man i've had a few of them pass through my doors but again you know as i look back on it these skirmishes i had with

really narcissistic people that had really ill intentions.

You know, when I finally uncovered it for me, it was, it was difficult because I was just like, well, why, you know, I really liked you.

And I thought I gave you a real pathway to succeed.

And I thought that we really were trying to do something special, but you had completely ulterior motives.

Um, but once you close that door, like an entirely new chapter opens, I don't think my platform would be anywhere near the size and impact it is now if I still had the person along the ride.

Um, so that, so it's really a blessing, you know, that they revealed their true colors.

Um, and that's just a personal journey of mine, but I, but I, you know, there's those moments where I look back and I think, man, all of those times that I thought,

how could this happen why did this happen you know how did i let this person into my life and then you realize letting them go made you make choices another door opened and then now now you're in a way better room yeah so um you've got to be at least uh keep in check on some of your biomarkers yes in your body i do quite a bit okay okay so i i i'd love to unpack that for a minute just