Gary John Bishop
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 10 Jul
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until it becomes too much.
Exactly.
That's the big word, right?
See, that's the problem with it.
Whatever you are tolerating in your relationship, you'll make it okay.
You'll make that thing okay, right?
It's not great, but it's okay.
And human beings have a tremendous capacity for making things that don't work somehow workable.
But then again comes that point where you're looking around yourself and thinking, this ain't it.
There's something off here.
It could be, and it could be simple things like there's no real intimacy anymore, or you go to the mall together, or a movie together, and you don't hold your partner's hand, or all those little kind of breakdowns become the norm, right?
Like there's just this kind of distance, and that distance comes from observing.
So the more you're observing the relationship, I invite people to take the case you're not in it.
You're actually watching it.
And you gotta get that really like in an experiential way.
We spend a lot of time in our relationships watching what's going on and in an internal mechanism with ourself about how that's doing, which includes keeping score, of course.
No, I mean, it's the only people that are really truly fascinated by the score in the game are the spectators.
But the people who are on the field, they're just playing.
And I know they're aware of the score, but they're all about the next play, the next play, the next play, the next play, the next play.
And that really is how it is in relationships.
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