Gemma Mullins

Like the calls coming from inside the fucking house, guys, let's be real.

When it comes to communicating, we are so easy to blame external things, right?

I'm not getting the leads.

I'm not getting the business.

I'm not growing on social media.

but then we're not looking at the way that we're behaving, right?

And even when I think about it from the perspective of friendship, so I'm jumping all over the place because it just applies to so many things.

It's like, you know, I can complain that you're annoying because you're doing X, Y, and Z, but if I'm not communicating that, like I said at the start of this episode,

you're not a mind reader.

You don't know.

We need to sometimes look inward at, well, what are we doing that is not allowing or facilitating for the growth that we are wanting?

If it's in our business, if we can't communicate, if we're ghosting people,

you attract not what you want, who you are, right?

You attract not what you want, you attract who you are, right?

So if you are the person that has low levels of communication, you are going to constantly attract clients that ghost you, that don't do their check-ins, that don't reply, that don't have good levels of communication.

So instead of looking externally, my point

I've gone a really long way around this point, guys, but I'm coming back to it.

My point is sometimes we need to look internal instead of blaming external factors.

What could we do better in actually building better levels of communication to get more opportunities in our life?

Yeah.