Gemma Mullins

That gives me permission to do that as well.

Yeah.

And I think on that topic, if you're someone who has all of these goals tucked away, you're thinking about you want to be more confident.

You're thinking about the fact that you want to show up on social media or grow a business or whatever it is.

And you feel this jealousy.

And as a result, you talk shit.

as a result, you find a way to knock people down a peg.

I see this all the time.

Someone will be successful and someone in the comments will say something negative about how it is that they achieved that success.

Or say if it's just like you know of some mutual person and they're doing really well.

If your first thought is to talk about, oh, wouldn't have done it that way.

Or, oh,

It's not that good.

Like you need to look within because every single time you talk shit about another person and you try to knock them down a peg because you can't handle them doing well, you are quite literally crippling your own ability to build confidence and do the same thing.

Because how do you think you're going to navigate you going after any of your goals when you know that that's the way that you think?

It's going to make it exemplified with how you feel like other people are going to judge you and it's a slippery slope I would want to avoid.

I also think like back to the whole like abundance mindset and also the permission slip, I really think that if you turn all of these things around you where you're seeing all of these people do really well and you just think of it as this whole collaborative thing, it just becomes this thing where everyone wins because if everyone around you – I hear this a lot –

Sorry, this is a bit of a side quest, but I hear this a lot about in America, the whole mindset around growth and business is a lot more collaborative than in Australia.

I've heard that it's a lot more like tall poppy syndrome and people like to gatekeep a lot more.

Anyway, my point on that is I just feel like imagine if every business...