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Gemma Spake

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The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Like obviously they like what they see.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

They've made it to the end.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

For questions, for prompts, for info.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Firstly, be like super clear about your intentions.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

I feel like that goes without saying.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Just be as open and honest as you can be.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Secondly, choose the most open-ended prompts that you can.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

The god-tier hinge prompt, and I believe it always has been this, is together we could.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Together we could, best hinge prompt.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Insert your answer, something sincere that shows off your true intentions, but is also funny.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

One of my friends had like, together we could get matching tattoos.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

your choice first like you choose which I love because she's like she's a little wild she's looking for something long term she's like very lovingly the most intense person you'll ever meet she has a tattoo with her now boyfriend and the responses that she would get were like amazing because it was such a fun conversation starter but it also showed intentions the other good prompts are I geek out on and then add your response and then a little bit about you and

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

And the easiest one is like, you should leave a comment if.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Open-endedness in these situations is rewarded greatly.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

And on an app or a platform that is designed for first impressions and wants you to make instantaneous decisions, give people a reason to pause.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Give people a reason to think a little bit more about you.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Now what I don't mean by saying this is like try and make your profile as appealing to absolutely everybody as possible.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

I want you to niche down.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

What you should do instead is make it representative but also make it very specific.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Who are you as a person?