Gemma Spake
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Podcast Appearances
Like obviously they like what they see.
They've made it to the end.
For questions, for prompts, for info.
Firstly, be like super clear about your intentions.
I feel like that goes without saying.
Just be as open and honest as you can be.
Secondly, choose the most open-ended prompts that you can.
The god-tier hinge prompt, and I believe it always has been this, is together we could.
Together we could, best hinge prompt.
Insert your answer, something sincere that shows off your true intentions, but is also funny.
One of my friends had like, together we could get matching tattoos.
your choice first like you choose which I love because she's like she's a little wild she's looking for something long term she's like very lovingly the most intense person you'll ever meet she has a tattoo with her now boyfriend and the responses that she would get were like amazing because it was such a fun conversation starter but it also showed intentions the other good prompts are I geek out on and then add your response and then a little bit about you and
And the easiest one is like, you should leave a comment if.
Open-endedness in these situations is rewarded greatly.
And on an app or a platform that is designed for first impressions and wants you to make instantaneous decisions, give people a reason to pause.
Give people a reason to think a little bit more about you.
Now what I don't mean by saying this is like try and make your profile as appealing to absolutely everybody as possible.
I want you to niche down.
What you should do instead is make it representative but also make it very specific.
Who are you as a person?