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Gemma Spake

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The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

That thing, the way that we were operating before this wasn't all that bad.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Let's go back there for a little bit.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Everything in our lives has turned into something of convenience, efficiency.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

We can get literally every emotion at our fingertips.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

We can get humor, validation, anger, now supposedly love at our fingertips.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

And I think people are getting fed up with our dating lives turning into like another form of Uber Eats or another form of...

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

gambling it's the same reason why I think there's been a resurgence you know platonically in like 80s and 90s club activities like run clubs book clubs cinema clubs outdoor clubs I'm sure we're going to be doing Tupperware clubs any like in the next three months I'm envisioning it as a trend on TikTok

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Honestly, it's a great place to meet people.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

If you're committed to meeting someone in real life, choose one kind of like mixed gender social-based activity and be there weekly.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Or choose a night of the week where you're like, this is my dating night.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

I will be going out and I will be meeting people.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Trivia nights are another good one.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Supper nights.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

I actually have a really funny story about this.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

I've obviously just moved to London.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

I'm in a very happy relationship, but I'm like looking for friends.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

And so I was like looking up supper clubs and I found this random supper club.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

It was like Geese Supper Club or something.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

And I was like, oh, that seems really fun.

The Psychology of your 20s
378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

Geese, you know, they go and they have these dinners.