Gemma Spake

There are no good and bad guys, but I'm definitely trying my hardest to be good in this situation to the people I love.

Don't be too hard on yourself.

Again, you did your best.

I will also say this, one final word of advice.

Their decisions and their actions...

will not be without remorse if you've found a deeply important friendship trio otherwise exploding like not to sound threatening but they will regret it they will someday in the future they are going to think about you and they're going to think about the memories you're you're like you're probably contemplating as well right now and they're going to say to themselves like

Oh my god, I really missed that person.

I think I really screwed that up.

Sometimes what makes these situations hard is because we start to drive ourselves crazy thinking like, did they ever even care about me?

Did I waste all this time?

Kind of like we do with an ex.

And they do.

And they did.

And they will continue to care about you.

It's up to you whether you want to leave the door open.

I think that you should.

I think there's always chances for redemption in, even if it's not tomorrow, if it's in 10 years, or at least for reminiscing.

So I hope you enjoyed this episode.

I hope that it was informative and is helping you if you're in a hard time or situation like this.

Our question for today, if you have made it this far, thank you for listening.