Gemma Speck

We all have insecurities and most of us don't cheat on our boyfriends.

Most of us don't stab our friends in the back.

The other thing is power dynamics.

There are people who just want to assert power and they want to assert control.

And this can occur in both a personal, professional relationship setting.

And it is a very serious, serious issue.

You know, there are people who genuinely, yes, have a lack of empathy.

Yes, are insecure.

Yes, have an inability to understand other people's feelings.

And then they also kind of enjoy it.

Like, they also, I've noticed this, get a kick out of cruel, controlling behavior.

It's this strange thing.

It's like they enjoy seeing the damage that they can do in other people's lives.

it's exciting to them.

These people exist.

And I think the reason why they do this is that the world feels uncontrollable to them.

They feel insignificant.

The world feels like it's been very unkind to them.

So they rectify that by messing in other people's lives to feel like God almost, to feel like they have a say in their destiny or their fate or the fate of other people.

That's how they