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Gemma Speck

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

So the moment you slow down, like...

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

There's a lot that's going to come with it.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

There's a lot of memories, worst case scenarios, this vague sense of dread that's going to crop up.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

And that is the guilt.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

That is literally the guilt that we are explaining right now.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

And if every time you experience guilt when you rest, you're going to learn through association, purely through association, that this is a dangerous thing.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

And so without even realizing through this associative learning, you're going to avoid it even more.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

Okay, we're going to take a short break here.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

But after this short break, we're going to explore the real dangers of this narrative and how we can start to unlearn these toxic, harmful thoughts about rest that we have been sold and we have been told.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

So stay with us.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

I kind of feel the need to remind us at this point that rest is literally a biological requirement, the same way that food and water is a biological requirement.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

You cannot deprive yourself of that.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

You can push through for a while.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

You can negotiate your way out of needing rest and needing recovery.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

You cannot outrun it.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

It's just not possible.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

Sleep is like one of the clearest examples we have of this.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

It's so measurable.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

So researchers often focus on it as a way of measuring rest.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

Obviously, that's not the only way to rest.