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Gemma Speck

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

That is what rest does for you.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

Researchers in a 2009 paper found what they call a positive incubation effect when you step away from a problem, when you let your brain rest and then you come back because it allows you to have more open-ended creative thinking.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

You will literally waste less time by taking time away.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

You will be able to like rejuvenate cognitively

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

by not forcing your body and your mind to do these long stretches of productivity.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

That is one of the easiest and most counterintuitive life hacks you could try today and you would see results.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

And I think most people won't do it because it seems so contrary to what we've been taught about hard work.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

So the big question we've kind of been running up to this whole time, this whole episode, you and me, is...

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

How do we actually do it?

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

We know it's important to rest.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

We can tell it's going to make us smarter.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

How do we stop the guilt, the guilt from coming in?

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

I have four key shifts for you, starting with this one.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

Stop treating rest like it's a reward.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

When you treat it like it's a reward, you put it at the mercy of your mood and your to-do list.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

Your to-do list is designed to win.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

It's literally endless.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

If you're a long-time overworker, high achiever type, you will always find something to do.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

I know people like you.

The Psychology of your 20s
373. Why rest makes us feel so guilty

I am somebody like you.