Gemma Spike
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15,259 appearances
32 recordings
1 series
first heard Apr 2026
last heard today
Gemma Spike’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Anyone to think poorly of us.
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Anyone, because that would mean that we've let somebody down.
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And as a good girl, like your nervous system literally just doesn't know how to cope with that.
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It doesn't have the strategy to feel okay in this situation of ambiguity and disappointment.
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The same applies to our opinions and our ability to express them.
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A classic sign of good girls syndrome is just not being able to stand up for something that you deeply believe in when somebody else disagrees with you, specifically out of fear that you disagreeing will come off as combative or contrarian and will make them upset.
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You could have a belief that you deeply believe in.
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More than anything else in the world.
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But as soon as somebody else says
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You know, I don't actually agree with that.
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This is my opinion.
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It's something different.
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You become very agreeable.
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Like even if it's against your own morals, sometimes it's really hard to stand up for that.
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You even, you know, I think will and often end up walking away being like, I wish that I'd done that differently.
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I wish that I'd pushed harder in the moment
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If you are if you have this good girl complex, it literally feels impossible.
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It is paralyzing.
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I remember doing an interview with somebody last year, and if you are a loyal listener, it honestly
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I think you could guess.
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