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Gina Goodwin

πŸ‘€ Speaker
143 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

You know, she thought they were problems, but they were actually symptoms.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

And so in a consultation, she said, I'd love to improve all these things.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

And initially I was like, oh, oh God.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

Yeah.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

But when I really looked at it, and I explained it to her, I said, these are all just symptoms.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

You know, like, if, if we know what card or two to pull from the bottom, the whole house of cards comes tumbling down without having to go one by one, which also takes a lot of time.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

So she was apparently trafficked by her mother.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

to a guru, you know, she was part Indian from India, and her mother was seeking enlightenment.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

And it was just like BS guru, right?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

That was just full of crap.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

And you know, she ended up giving him everything, like everything she had pretty much.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

And then one day, she was like, Well, I've given you everything, where's my enlightenment?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

And he said, You haven't given me everything.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

You haven't given me your daughter.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

So that's how it started.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

And for her whole teenage years, she was being raped by this man, loss of virginity to this man.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

And so...

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

What's interesting is that, like Todd was saying, it's not what happens, it's our reaction to it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

It's what our mind associates with that.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: How to Rewire Your Subconscious & Break the Patterns Holding You Back with Todd & Gina Goodwin

So what's super fascinating is that the trauma wasn't with the guru or him doing that to her.