Gorgi Coghlan

So it's not as if – no, I didn't have any people – I'm not a people pleaser at all.

Like sometimes I wish I had a little bit of people pleasing in me now because I just can be so blunt and so – like my girlfriends laugh and go, oh my God, you're so harsh.

I'm like, well – You want the truth.

Here it is.

Yeah.

So I'm the friend that people come to when they want the truth.

No, so I didn't, there's no people pleasing.

It's funny, it doesn't come from that.

It comes from, I think, seeing the best in people and then being screwed over, which happened in my 20s.

Okay.

So with a relationship that I just got so hurt and betrayed and so toxic that it was almost like a, it was almost like, imagine just being swiped sideways.

A bit like, what the hell just happened then?

And realizing then, when I unpacked it, of like, oh my gosh, like I just totally was taken on a ride there of, you know, so much emotional stuff that manipulation and things like that, that I didn't even sort of process.

So that's, that's when I started to do the work.

And that's when I started to realize, ah, right, okay, sometimes people aren't what they seem.

So it really came because I've always been feisty and strong-willed and independent.

But obviously, everything happens.

Nothing's wasted.

So I needed to learn to be true to myself.

So that's why that relationship came into my life.