Grace Alice O'Shea

So have your go-tos, have your kind of old favorites, but like do experiment in a way that feels like, you know, comfortable but exciting as well.

Yeah.

Okay.

Yeah.

Is there a lot of them?

Yeah.

I don't know.

I mean, everyone's different.

How we learned, again, sex is a learned behavior.

It can just be someone's personality where they're just not a very vocal person, not a very communicative person.

But like it is important for a lot of people, like for that connection to have, like some people are really into talking during sex and dirty talk and all that.

Some people are like this person mute.

A lot of people are in the middle as well.

um it could be just his personality but it's definitely something he can try and work on if it's something that's really important to the the person who asked the question um how do you work on that is the thing you kind of have to look at um why is someone so quiet during sex is it just that they're so wrapped up in the moment and they're really in touch with the body and the pleasure and the physical side of it that they go to that place in their brain yeah um

Worst case, are they dissociating?

Are they disconnected from it?

Like I'm kind of missing a bit of information here over like she knows her or they know their partner better than me, right?

Yeah.

If it is just that, you know, they're quite shy and it's just not something they've done before, trying to kind of introduce in a way that's not super porny or performative where...

Say, for example, if I'm like, if I want him to say, oh, you feel amazing, like asking, does this feel good or how do I feel?