Grace Alice O'Shea
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
It's not great.
It's okay to stop it and say, I'm not really feeling this today.
Maybe we can try, you know, and try, is it go back to kissing or we could try a toy or try something else.
Like that's also okay to do.
Watch a Netflix documentary.
Just just stop it all together.
And yeah, Netflix and chill.
Like, honestly, though, it doesn't have to be amazing all the time.
But I would say don't be kind of passively.
Yeah.
Moving through experiences, though, that aren't good at all, because that kind of confuses your brain and body then of, you know.
Yeah, yeah.
I think it's always good to have those go-to's as stuff that you know that works.
So you're like, okay, we know that this works.
So if we get to the point where both of us want to finish or, you know, climax, we know what to do.
But like that doesn't mean we have to go straight to that all the time.
Like there is time before that to try something new.
Like novelty is important.
The brain likes a bit of novelty.
Yeah.