Grace Alice O'Shea

Will it ever get to the, you know, if it doesn't feel like it's actually getting there or worth it, that's when you need to start questioning.

Is this the right person?

Is it?

You know, like not instant progress, but you should feel if you're working on a relationship, if you're working on your communication, you should feel over time that it's going somewhere.

Yeah.

With sex, we have to think about context.

What else is happening around it?

Yeah.

And that's going to impact the experience.

How am I feeling in my body that day?

How are my stress levels?

How is my connection with my partner right now?

What setting are we in?

Are we on holiday?

Are we at home?

There's so many factors that go into making a sexual experience what it is.

So yeah, it's normal.

Now if...

You know, if it can be amazing, I think it's always good.

It doesn't have to be amazing every time, but always trying to, if you're in the middle of a sexual experience, you're having sex and you're like, this just isn't really, I'm just not really in this.