Grace Alice O'Shea

Like just giving prompts and that kind of can give someone the language to respond to the prompt, if that makes sense.

yeah so you get it right yeah I know you can get it really wrong as well so there could be a conversation outside of sex where you're like these are things I really like to hear during sex and this is why I like to hear them and you know how do you feel about that um

It's like, you know, again, with the comfort zone, the only way to expand it is to be a bit uncomfortable.

And that's okay to be uncomfortable.

Totally.

And it's for you to kind of notice, okay, being a little bit outside my comfort zone is great.

Being like miles out is probably not going to feel good.

So it's for him to kind of figure out where can I start, you know, with communicating more.

Yes.

I've helped so many people pick out their first toy.

all ages and I love hearing someone that's you know is that bit older who's interested in it because it's never too late you know pleasure is pleasure you can have it at any age.

The best place to start is start quite simple I would say you know what do you already do so for example if you

masturbate in a way that you like to touch yourself, touch your clitoris with your hand, what you could get is a clitoral vibrator.

I know Jenny Keane was talking about finger vibrators, I think, when she was on.

Something like that is actually a great starting point because it's not this big intimidating thing.

And it's just, you know, it's on your hands.

You can touch yourself.

It's not a million miles from what you already do.

Or kind of a toy that could be versatile.

is a G-spot vibrator.