Grace O'Connor

You know, I'm doing this for you.

He's done everything for us, Brenda.

He wanted to show my kids this better way of life, this healthy way of life, how you can progress as a person, you know, and

He would constantly, whether it was a challenge to do the ice barrel, he would do this with Chris and his two nephews of to do 100 push-ups, 100 days, 100 euros.

Now, he'd always joke and say, thank God none of them completed it, he'd be broke.

So he was always challenging him to do all these things.

He got us all tickets for us to do the Limerick Run together.

This massively, like my son Chris, oh my God, God, he had running.

Now he is running.

from Limerick to Cork at 17 for charity from our house to James's grave.

Thanks to James for installing that in him, you know.

So we're waiting, Alan's home.

Severe PTSD.

And I think he didn't know what way we were going to be.

We were just so grateful he was with James.

We were grateful for him.

I remember even physically wanting to be closer to him.

He was physically last person to James.

And I think some people wouldn't understand this.

You know, they've had that.