Grace

I think she's hoping, because my husband's very non-confrontational, and it's also not his mom, so he doesn't feel comfortable saying, these are the things that you've kind of said that have hurt me or things you've done that have hurt me.

She thinks if I was there acting as kind of a middleman, it would help him open up to my mom more and maybe help her feel some remorse towards him.

Yeah, I think that's a little bit of it.

And then there's another added layer, like if you're familiar with the idea of like a toxic boy mom who's in love with her son because her husband doesn't fulfill what she needs in a relationship.

There's a little bit of that going on.

I wouldn't say she's like in love with me, but it's her current husband, my stepdad, is away a lot for work.

And so she's alone a lot.

She's an empty nester now.

And so she...

wants me to be around and to fulfill that relationship you know someone to talk to every single day and now that i totally my husband and my family it's just it's not like that anymore i don't necessarily like i'll text her every day but i don't have time to call her every day anymore and yeah and that's you know i'm sad for your mom i you know and that like sucks

Yeah.

I would agree.

Alrighty.

Well, thank you.

This was very helpful.

Will do.

Will do.

Yeah, and I don't even know if that's possible at this point.

You know, if they'll ever get to a point where they are best friends or love each other like mother and son, I just don't see us getting to that point ever.

Sounds good.